I’ve written many times on One Spoon about the importance of feedback, and the importance of not taking it personally.
Today I want to give a shout out to The Dinomeister – Dino Dogan – as a model of this in action.
Who Is Dino Dogan?
If you don’t know who Dino is, you can find him at Diyblogger.net. More importantly though, Dino is one of the brains behind Triberr (the other is coding whiz kid Dan Cristo).
Now Triberr only started earlier this year – but it’s making a significant difference in the lives of many bloggers because their posts get tweeted out by all of their ‘tribe.’
Because it’s so new – and so radical! – there have been issues and concerns raised by members of Triberr about how it works, the ‘ethics’ of auto-blogging, and such.
Whenever any issues have been raised, I’ve loved watching how Dino (and Dan) deal with the feedback. They don’t rant and rave and defend their application – they deal with it in a professional manner.
Here are a couple of examples:
Example 1 – Erica Allison/The Allison Development Group
Erica was one of the early adopters of Triberr – and was originally a part of The Mighty Anubis Tribe. But she had issues with features of Triberr – and she withdrew, and blogged about it here:
The Triberr Break Up – It’s Me Not You
There are some interesting comments – but here’s the one I chose for you to look at:
Here are the takeaways – Dino apologizes for creating a problem by deciding to take The Mighty Anubis Tribe down a certain path. And in answering some of the comments on this post Dino and Dan came up with a new feature to implement to make Triberr better – which was delivered almost immediately.
And then Dino thanks Erica for a great post.
Do you have any idea how rare that behaviour is?
(If you follow Erica you’ll know that she recently rejoined Triberr – and is using it in a way that works for her)
Example 2 – Tristan Higbee/Blogging Bookshelf
And here’s another example. Tristan Higbee from Blogging Bookshelf decided to withdraw from Triberr – and blogged about it here.
Here’s Dino’s response:
What I love in Dino’s response is not that there’s any criticism or any defence of Triberr – but his response indicates understanding of Tristan’s reasoning and a request for further information. Further information gives further feedback.
Kudos To Dino And Dan
Taking feedback in a professional manner is something that all of us need to be able to do if we honestly want to improve ourselves.
Without feedback we don’t know what’s wrong and we can’t fix it. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve seen people suggest features to Dino, that Dan then implements within a few days.
As a result Triberr continues to just get better. And better.
Dino posted a while back about what would happen the day someone came into the ‘Triberr’ space with a rival app – my advice to him is that he’s got absolutely nothing to worry about provided he and Dan continue to take feedback in this professional manner.
My Triberr Experiment
I’m a member of The Mighty Anubis Tribe – and I love it, not just for the traffic it sends, but also for the networking with some of the members like Stan Faryna, The JackB, Janet Calloway, Eugene Farber, The Dinomeister himself, and others.
When you’re invited to Triberr you can also start your own tribes – so far I have just one with some awesome folk in: Peggy Baron, Marlee Wood, Daniel Wood and Jon Alford.
And it’s time to expand my tribes. If you read One Spoon regularly, you know the kind of subjects I write about. If you write about complimentary subjects and want an invite to Triberr, use the contact form and send me an email and I’ll take a look. (Note: if I choose not to invite you, take that feedback professionally – not personally!)

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Paul,
So right you are. And only you could illuminate the nuances of a clear and intelligent lesson.
Like you, I feel very fortunate to find myself among top bloggers in the Mighty Anubis tribe. I am grateful to all the members of Anubis for sharing their stories, insight, inspiration and influence.
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I’m with you Stan. I’m very grateful to be a part of Triberr and more specifically the Anubis Tribe. Connecting with members of the tribe has been priceless.
While some of the criticisms of Triberr may be valid, I think it is important to remember that Triberr is a tool. And like all other tools it is all about the way that you use it. So you can get out of Triberr what you want.
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@Stan and @Eugene
The mighty Anubus Tribe is awesome. At first, I wasn’t sure…but thankfully I was too busy with bass stuff to do anything about it, so I let it ride.
My only regret is that I don’t get enough time to check out some of the other Anubis folk out in detail – especially some of the newer members like Lori and Constantin. But I’ll change that and make the time from somewhere.
We ought to invent an Anubis Tribe motto that we sign off with whenever we leave a comment for each other!
Paul
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How bout “Gods of the underworld, signing off.’
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Haha I like it!
-Gods of the underworld, signing off
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Hi Paul,
Yeah Dino and Dan are handling the growing pains brilliantly. I was in and then out and am now back in and I’m loving it now. I just started building my own tribe and I wish you and Stan weren’t already engaged because I’d invite you both.
The challenge of taking things personally when they’re supposed to be professional, I think, comes when through social media we build friendships. We cross the line when our relationships become friendships and then we find ourselves in different territory. Tricky territory!
I like how you handled it with your last statement. I hope I can do as well should the need arise for me with regards to Triberr!
Happy Thursday Paul! You too Stan!
Lori
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Lori
With regards to your tribe – I’d be honoured to join. There’s a feature called Inbreeding…I watched a screencast on it the other week. It will cost us both bones I think – but that’s cool. So if you wanna check that out and drop me an invite, I’d be delighted.
You shouldn’t find yourself with a problem with regards to Triberr – as people aren’t supposed to request to join a tribe, the chief of that tribe needs to invite them.
Thanks for stopping by. Happy Thursday back at ya….
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Hi Paul,
Yeah, I knew about the unlocking of inbreeding. Would it cost us BOTH 70 bones?!
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From memory it costs 70 bones to ‘expand’ your tribe and unlock the inbreeding feature – adn I think it costs me 50 bones to join. But I’m cool with that if you are – and I promise to only write my best!

Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Invite on the way!
Welcome Paul!
Lori
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Just to clarify the pricing a bit. It currently cost 70 bones to unlock the tribe for inbreeding. You must also have at least 4 non-breeding members in your tribe. After it’s unlocked, you can invite anyone inside or outside of Triberr to join. If they are already on triberr it’ll cost 30 bones to accept your invite.
Hope that helps.
Hey Dan
Yep that’s cool – the Screencast video that Dino did was pretty easy to follow and very clear about the costs and stuff.
Already gone into Lori’s tribe, and changed my first tribe up by enabling inbreeding. What’s are the next cool features coming down the pipe?
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
So what I’ve been working on today and yesterday is a redesigned members page with a revamped Tribe Council. The new Tribe Council will function very much like a Facebook Wall, where tribemates can ask questions, leave comments and replay to others. Whenever there is a new comment all tribe members will be emailed unless they turn that functionality off. You’ll start to see similar social features make their way to the platform.
We’ve also released some primitive leaderboards under the member page earlier this week. There will be Triberr-wide leaderboards and Tribe-wide leaderboards available soon. Don’t be surprised to see these boards serve as a piece of a much bigger feature that will be released in a few months.
This platform is evolving quickly. We’ve got a very clear vision of where we’re heading, and I think everyone is really going to enjoy it.
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Sounds very cool Dan! If Triberr didn’t evolve much from its current level of functionality it would still be an extremely useful tool. But the rate at which you evolve features is outstanding.
Thanks for all your great work – got some time scheduled tomorrow to work on the blog and will add a mention of Triberr in the sidebar area somewhere to help publicize you guys!
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Thank you so much for writing about me. I’m honored and flattered

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Dino
Dude, you don’t need to be honoured or flattered. You get the props you deserve for the way you and Dan have acted. It would have been soooooo easy for you and Dan to crack the shits anytime someone criticised or pulled out.
Most other folk would find a blogger of Tristan’s standing pulling out – and publically stating that he was pulling out – to be a body blow. Not you guys – it’s just another way to gain feedback to make Triberr better.
Keep doing what you do – I’m looking forward to building my tribes out and expanding my reach. Something that would be much harder without Triberr.
Paul
PS hope you don’t mind me lifting one of my favourite ‘Dino is crazy in a good way’ photos from your site to use with the post. If you do, let me know and I’ll replace it with a Triberr logo or something….
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
All is well my friend…the pics are out there to be seen
I hide the compromising ones in my secret stash at the bottom of my secret layer.
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Paul it has been and is a pleasure. I only wish that I had more time. I keep stumbling onto new blogs that fascinate me and barely have time to visit the others that intrigue me.
I am happy that Triberr came up during a time where I felt like I had established myself because I didn’t worry about the impact upon my blog. And like you said Dino and Dan have been very responsive so issues are taken care of and some old concerns no longer exist.
Ditto to everything. Need I say more?
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Hi Paul,
I could not agree more with your assessment of Dino (and Dan) and their level of professionalism and approach to feedback. They are a rare breed of individuals that can so openly take feedback (and criticism) and so effortlessly incorporate it back into the program in order to make it better for everyone. I “heart” them very much!
Thanks also for the link love. Always appreciated. As you know, my view has changed completely since that post!~
Thanks,
Erica
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Hey Erica
Yep Dino and Dan are very cool. I know you’ve rejoined Triberr since then, but the early days of Anubis and particularly your breaking up article put you on my radar. I’ve been stuck for time recently and limited for where I can hang out on the blogosphere – your blog is always on the list of ‘Places I should Go More Often.’
Must try and make that happen.
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Paul, thanks for sharing another awesome lesson in professionalism.
Always a pleasure Yvonne, hope you’re well.
P.s. I’m sure you know, you don’t have a gravatar associated with you – I know you, but some people would trash your comment assuming you are a spammer. And you are SO not a spammer!
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Talk about a lot of backslapping going on here in the comments section. Does the mighty Annibus Triberrs need some sort of validation that they rock?
Well you all do and I’m jealous of your reach. You guys are all good folks and I wish you the best of luck on your future endeavors. (Note: for those that don;t know me, I am sarcastic. Yup. It’s true.)
Keep up the good work everyone. There I slapped your backs too.
Hey Brad
Anubis is pretty cool – but Triberr started out being pretty cool, and is getting cooler by the day. Dan and Dino do a great job of listening to feedback and implementing changes suggested by that feedback. That’s what the post is really about – although a side benefit has been connecting with some smart folk that I for one would probably never have found otherwise.
Are you in Triberr?
Paul
Yo Paul,
Yeah, I’m definitely in Triberr. Dino and Dan are some really cool kick ass dudes who know what it means to run a bis that fully engages with their customers. I wrote a post about it a while back if you’d like to check it out. http://ow.ly/5p4qH
Let me know if you’d like another member in your tribe. I have imbreeding turned on on mine so who ever you want to work it. Take Care!
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Kudos to Dino! I’ve done a couple of post relating to this matter but I highlighted the negative factor, how certain bloggers or affiliates rose to defend themselves rather than to deal with the real issue of dissatisfaction with their product or behaviour.
This is a great example of how someone should react when put under the spotlight. Whereas those other lose their social standing Dino has improved his astronomically.
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Hey Sire
Thanks for stopping by.
You’re absolutely right. It’s a ‘gut’ reaction to defend yourself when you get criticized that we’re all guilty of – but if you allow yourself to give into that temptation then you’re missing out on the best learning opportunity you can have. Plus as you say, there’s a loss of social standing or trust.
The mindset to take is that you are not your work, if someone criticizes your work they are not criticizing you. (Sadly, few people can disassociate their egos from their blog posts…or their ebooks…or their workshops).
Thanks for stopping by.
Paul
You know Paul having a ‘gut’ reaction may be a good excuse in the offline world but it should never be an excuse in the online world where you have the time to sit back and analyze the situation.
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Agree totally. If you have to, write the gut reaction defence, and then come back a day later, trash it, and write a reasoned response.
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
I had a lot of issues with Tribber to start – but each time I did and I emailed Dino about it, he never made me feel like I was the one at fault.
He is a great marketer, and some big brands can learn a lot from the way he interacts with his future customers
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Hey Alex
Great to see you over here – and I agree with you but I’d add it’s not just big brands who can learn. It’s everyone who truly wants to make their products or services better. Feedback is a golden opportunity to work out what’s not working properly and fix.
Dino (and Dan) have displayed levels of professionalism in taking feedback that the rest of us can learn from and aspire to.
Paul
Sorry for the somewhat out of topic reply… but I figure you’re a cool guy and will be happy to help a soul in need.
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I’ve considered joining Triberr from a while back – but I’m intimidated by it because I’m not exactly a “power blogger”. I’ve read through all their Triberr 101 articles and still can’t make sense of it.
Does it make sense for me to join? If so, where should I start? Asking for an invite to a Tribe in my niche, or from a friend?
And, if I have 2 different blogs, does that mean that I need to pick one to be invited with?
I’m thinking that maybe, when you need something to write about, you could write up a quick 2000+ word article with the OneSpoonAtATime version of why/how to join Triberr.
mxx
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Hi Marina,
Triberr is made with you in mind. To see exactly what I mean, read http://smartboydesigns.com/2011/04/25/the-triberr-macgyver-interview-with-dino-dogan/
As for RSS/tribe thing. Once you’re in, you get 3 tribes of your own to rule with wisdom and kindness. So you can assign whichever RSS you want to a tribe.
Hope that explains it

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Marina – meet Dino.
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Dino – meet Marina. (And treat her real nice – she’s one of my mastermind buddies and so far the ONLY person I’ve let guest post here!
See – this is the kind of thing I’m talking about. I was sat wondering about your request for a long article – as if the three article series I’m writing on creating Long Tail Articles for YOUR site isn’t enough – and Dino writes two paragraphs. Posts a link. And sorts it.
Champion behaviour.
Go read Christian’s post – if you have more questions, drop me an email!
Paulxx
Hi Dino,
Nice to meet you and thanks for your personal note. Triberr makes more sense to me now.
And, for any other confused noob out there – here is an obvious link which helped me understand Triberr better: http://triberr.com/blog/faq/
Paul, thanks for the intro and for hosting our small comments hijack.
mxx
P.S. Christian’s post was very good too – thanks!
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Great post Paul and kudos to Dino and Dan for such an awesome community. I’m happy to also be a part of triberr even though I’m NOT a member of The Mighty Anubis Tribe… I have my own little ones and we’re a great community as well.
Dino definitely went about answering negative criticism in the right way. So far I’ve only had one very unhappy customer and the way I would handle it in the past is get upset and respond back strongly. Instead I’ve learned to walk away, look at it from their perspective, realize they may be just having a bad day and then move forward. I’m happy to say all was resolved and my customer even came back and gave me praise publicly for handling her situation in a productive and professional way. It does pay to take the high road and respond in a positive and helpful manner.
Thanks for bringing this topic up. Really a great read for today Paul.
Adrienne
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Hey Adrienne
Thanks for stopping by. Yep I think we tried to ‘tap’ you up for Triberr back when I put my first tribe together (I think Peggy emailed you, but you were already taken and that was the days before inbreeding was allowed). Hmmm now I think about it, you’d make a great addition to that tribe – if you’re still interested let me know and I’ll spend the bones to upgrade so you can join. (Cost you 30 bones too though!).
Anyway, Dino and Dan are a great example to all of us on how to treat feedback. Always got to remember: the feedback is not about YOU. It’s about whatever’s being critiqued – which ISN’T you! Not being able to separate the two cost me the chance of the career I’d give an arm, a leg and both my kids for. That’s a long story for another day though….
Hope you have a great weekend.
Paul
I remember that Paul, back before Dino set it up… So glad he did that too because so many people that I had come in contact with were already members. I’d love to still be a part of one of yours and don’t worry about the bones, I’ve got plenty now. Looking forward to that my friend.
Although Dino is very opinionated, he does an exceptional job at handling both positive and negative feedback. Something we can all learn from. You are right, their criticism is not about you. You can be the bigger person and respond in kind and you’ve made new contacts for life.
Sorry to hear that was a lesson learned too late for you but at least it was learned. Maybe we’ll hear your experience some day. Until then, life goes on.
Have an awesome weekend yourself. I know I will.
Thanks Paul,
Adrienne
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Hey Adrienne
I’ll get the invite set up. There’s some very cool people in the Tribe – Peggy you know, Marlie Ward from Metamorphasis, Daniel Wood, and a guy called Jon Alford who you may not have come across.
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
I spent most of my career in the software industry. I can honestly say that most product enhancements didn’t come from customer feedback, but from engineers who would continually add new features whether customers wanted them or not. But as the industry moves to SaaS solutions, more companies have the opportunity to accelerate the development and update processes to reflect customer needs (just as Dino and Dan do with Triberr).
Still, many companies respond to negative feedback defensively, instead of using the information to make a better product. I’ve been following the conversations about Triberr closely, and like you, I’ve been very impressed with the way Dino and Dan have responded. I finally decided to join–I’m now a member of our friend Bill Dorman’s first tribe!
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Yep – Dino and Dan’s responses have been pretty impressive.
Glad you’ve signed up – I’ve found it’s a great way to get some regular traffic and eyeballs onto your posts.
Once you get the hang of it then you can start building your own tribes out – which will build your reach out and accelerate that process. There are some good blog posts on this on The Triberr website – Dino recommends that for your 3 tribes you have a tribe of people like you, a tribe for up and coming bloggers who you’re giving a helping hand to (and who write great content), and a ‘Power’ tribe where you try and get a couple of heavy hitters onboard. (You know the people with 10,000 Plus followers.)
I’ve just about finished my first tribe and about to start on the second – plus being a member of The Mighty Anubis Tribe gives me great reach.
Thanks for stopping by – be interesting to see how you get on with Triberr!
Paul
Paul Wolfe recently posted..Feedback And The Professional Mindset, Exhibit 1 – @dino_dogan
Wow Paul,
Dino’s response to criticism alone is enough to make me seriously consider joining Triberr! That is awesome of him to be so open and understanding of criticism, I think many people need to take a leaf out of his book!
Hope you have a nice weekend – red hot in England today FOR ONCE lol.
By the way checked the bass guitar site, I love it! You’re doing an awesome job there man, can see how much hours you’ve put in and how seriously you take it, love how you’ve made it a business as well.
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Hey Robert
Today has been a write off for me – went to a party last night and have had the mother of all hangovers today! But the kids have loved splashing in the paddling pool!
And if you wanna join Triberr I’d be happy to extend an invite to my ‘up and coming’ tribe – see the comment to Marianne above.
Thanks for taking time to look over the bass guitar site – and glad you like it. And yep, it does take a large investment of time…but it’s really start to pay off in terms of revenues generated and even more so in allowing me to try out strategies for product creation in a different market.
Paul
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Hope you’re all recovered from your hangover dude…we’ve all been there! Picked up a nice tan today in about an hour haha.
Thanks man I’m seriously considering it, nice of you to invite me.
You’re welcome, yeah glad it’s paying off for you. I’m sure it will continue to grow.
I hope you check this comment as I’ve featured you in my latest blog post, check out the post linked to underneath through KeywordLuv.
Speak soon
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The lessons here are applicable to more than just Triberr. Just imagine the type of product improvement possible when developers and companies actually listen to the people who use there product every day! Such a concept is controversial in Corporate America, but they should be listening!
Knowing much more about Tribber must be the goal of the people who are willing to get the advantage of this tool. They can use it to improve their career like other means. A way to express what is on their mind, a negative or positive things. Join now , and realize the benefit of it. You have nothing to loose but instead you will gain something like good ideas in life.
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Paul, aloha. Even though you wrote this post a couple of weeks ago, I am so glad I saw it. As you know, recently there has been a fair amount of Triberr trash talk. Forgetting about whether points were valid or not (at least from my perspective), what has long impressed me is Dino’s response.
On more than one occasion I have told someone that the way Triberr responds is a perfect example of how it should be done. Quite honestly, I don’t know if I am have ever seen someone respond so well for such a sustained period of time–especially when I thought some of the comments were–well, I’d better not say.
Paul, thx for including me in the shout out to the Mighty Anubis group; we have some terrific tribe members. Ironically, before I came over to your blog today I was talking with a woman about e-books and Amazon. What I told her is that I would visit a friend’s blog who knows everything–or at least it seems that way–about e-books and publishing on Amazon and send her a few posts to get her started.
As a result of Triberr, I have met some amazing bloggers, incredible resources and wonderful friends. Thx so much, Paul, for this fantastic post on Dino and his exemplary way of responding to feedback.
Best wishes for a terrific day. Aloha. Janet
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Hey Janet
Thanks for the comment – LOL at your thoughts at thinking of me as ‘someone who knows everything about eBooks.’ I certainly don’t know everything – in fact have only written 6 of my own. (Though 1 of them was enormous and nearly killed me! HA hahahaha).
I do spend a lot of time working on my ‘domain map’ relating to topics I’m interested in – which is online business in general, but specifically eBooks, content creation, infoproducts, traffic strategies, pricing, conversion and consumption, and more. I must post about working on ‘Domain Maps.’
Thanks for stopping by and thanks for subscribbing.
Paul
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